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Tom N
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Post Number: 145
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Posted on Wednesday, July 5, 2006 - 10:09 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

I had an appointment today with a specialist who only comes to my doctors office once a week. This was my first visit with this doctor and I had a 10:00 appointment, which wasn't the best time for me because I would be missing a half day of work for which I wasn't going to be paid for. Anyway, the doctors office calls me today during the downpour at 9:30 to ask if I was still coming in. When I told them I was, they said they would see me then. Upon arriving at the office, the receptionist proceeds to tell me that she is very sorry but the doctor just called and due to the weather, she would not be making it in so I would have to make a new appointment. It wasn't that bad out so it was more likely she didn't want to come in. So besides getting PO'd over of my wasted time, income and aggrivation, I couldn't help to also think of how it's a common practice when a patient cancels an appointment with no notice that they have to pay a fee. Funny how when it's the other way around, we are just out of luck.
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red
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Posted on Wednesday, July 5, 2006 - 10:12 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

That is ridiculous. Especially sine they call you a half an hour before you get in....
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Soparents
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Post Number: 1895
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Posted on Wednesday, July 5, 2006 - 10:15 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

I am sure they knew when they called you (that's WHY they called you) It really sucks. I have been in the same position and it's horrible.
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Tom Reingold
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Posted on Wednesday, July 5, 2006 - 10:59 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Tom N, bill the doctor for your time. I'm totally serious. My father has done this. It's only fair. You were clear in your communications. He owes you. Stand your ground. He has no ground to stand on. He can choose to skip the appointment if he's willing to pay the price for your time. Not otherwise.
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Just The Aunt
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Posted on Thursday, July 6, 2006 - 12:54 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Actually Tom it was a male doctor. LOL But I like your idea!
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Tom Reingold
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Post Number: 14914
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Posted on Thursday, July 6, 2006 - 12:55 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

I beg your pardon?
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Glock 17
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Posted on Thursday, July 6, 2006 - 3:59 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Uhh?

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SO Ref
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Post Number: 1954
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Posted on Thursday, July 6, 2006 - 5:56 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

JTA was pointing out that Tom R. made a mistake in his gender reference to Tom N.'s doctor when using the term "him" instead of "her" but the irony lies in her own mistake of using "male" when she probably meant "female"...

Cough syrup and posting after midnight don't mix.
Just a joke, Just The Aunt...
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Nob
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Posted on Thursday, July 6, 2006 - 4:45 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Tom R -- did the doctor give your Dad a discount for inconveniencing him? That's great.
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frannyfree
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Posted on Friday, July 7, 2006 - 10:14 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

My father did the same thing. He ran a very large business and hated waiting for Doctors. He would send the doctor that kept him waiting a bill for $100.00 per hour. This in the day when top lawyers were getting the same. The doctor inevitably called him upon recieving the bill. His time was valuable and this got the message across. After that, they NEVER let him wait longer than a few minutes. By the way, he never made them pay. He just wanted to make a point. It ALWAYS worked.
Sometimes, you just have to take a stand.
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Tom Reingold
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Post Number: 14919
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Posted on Friday, July 7, 2006 - 10:24 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

My father's story played exactly like frannyfree's father's story, though my father ran a small business instead. Not that that matters.
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notehead
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Posted on Friday, July 7, 2006 - 4:28 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Tom & Franny, that's GREAT. I love it. I've thought of doing that, and perhaps even made jokes about it, but never thought that anybody actually did that. But your posts made me realize... why NOT? Our time has real value. A doctor and his staff have to have the ability to schedule appointments without taking everybody else's time for granted. If that means they have to add a 5 or 10 minute buffer to each appointment to make up for things that take longer than expected, so be it. I can deal with waiting 15 minutes to get into the doc's office. After that, I'm annoyed.
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Tom Reingold
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Posted on Friday, July 7, 2006 - 10:09 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Mind you, I cut them more slack than that. Sometimes our GP, Dr Orenberg falls quite a bit behind. He tells me why. And it's always a real emergency. I am glad to know he will drop other patients to handle my emergency, should it ever come up.

Also, we should know that insurance companies now require tight scheduling in order to pay doctors half-decently. It sucks, but it's out of the doctors' hands.

Tom N's problem wasn't aggressive scheduling. It was a doctor too wimpy to drive in the rain. That is far more disrespectful than tight scheduling.
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anon
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Posted on Friday, July 7, 2006 - 11:24 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Tpm N: Get a different doctor. You wouldn't continue to patronize a supermarket, dry cleaner or barber who treated you so shabbily. Why respond any differently to a doctor. There are plenty of doctors of all specialties all around.

Tom and franny: Maybe your dads were the same guy, living two lives!
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Peter G. Magic
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Post Number: 163
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Posted on Saturday, July 8, 2006 - 2:30 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

As a physician I see no excuse for that kind of conduct. Now if the doctor was called away for an emergency such as an operation, that would be different. But never for the weather!
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Eats Shoots & Leaves
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Post Number: 3482
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Posted on Sunday, July 9, 2006 - 11:02 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

I'm guessing the support staff was ticked off also, and so instead of lying that the doctor had an emergency, they told the truth. Bet this doc does it to them a lot.
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greenetree
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Posted on Monday, July 10, 2006 - 11:01 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Last December, I was driving TS to the doc to have her cast removed. She'd called him the week before to tell him that her foot felt swollen inside, but he couldn't see her until the next week.

So, there is an accident on 24 and she calls to tell him that she's going to be 5 minutes late. He tells her that he has to be somewhere at 6p and can't wait for her; she needs to reschedule (appointment was for 5:30p, how close was he going to cut it?). She tells him that she already called him a week ago, he couldn't see her then and that she's right at the exit ramp.

No deal. She has to reschedule. She says "it's coming off if I have to take it off myself". He says "go ahead". We go home; she does. She calls the next day and says "what now". He sends her an Rx to start PT.

A week later, he informs her disability company that she removed her casts AMA and missed the appointment.

It was very ugly. He wrote her a letter of apology.



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