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cats
Citizen
Username: Cats
Post Number: 51
Registered: 5-2003
| | Posted on Friday, April 14, 2006 - 9:05 pm: | 
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Approximately how much should I spend on a bridal shower gift? My niece is getting married in August and my daughter will be a jr. bridesmaid. We've already given an engagement gift and of course, we'll be giving a wedding present (check). Personally, I am put off by these "parties", but that's another topic... They're registered at Macy's and Fortunoff. Many of their choices have been fulfilled, but there are still some things available. I don't want to be considered a cheapskate nor do I want to spend a fortune. Help! |
mayflower2258
Citizen
Username: Mayflower2258
Post Number: 103
Registered: 6-2002
| | Posted on Friday, April 14, 2006 - 9:53 pm: |
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Well then, think about something in the $35-$50 range. Sorry, but that's about the going rate for these events. You are involved in the wedding (daughter) and you are "related." That's really not that expensive in 2006 shower gifts (heck, I was paying those prices back in the mid-80's). When in doubt, don't be cheap!
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las
Citizen
Username: Las
Post Number: 1571
Registered: 10-2003
| | Posted on Friday, April 14, 2006 - 10:38 pm: |
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Is there some kind of family heirloom you can hand down (that's not earmarked for your children)?
Honestly, do you even have to go to the shower? Personally, I can't see the relevance of those parties except to garner more gifts. Those things are so contrived and I would bet she still has fun even without her Aunt Cats. Sorry - I despise obligatory gift-giving. |
Pippi
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Username: Pippi
Post Number: 2088
Registered: 8-2003
| | Posted on Friday, April 14, 2006 - 11:07 pm: |
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Aunt Cats's non-attendence might upset her sibling, the parent of the bride. I wouldn't suggest she not attend, unless she wants to cause a cats-astrophic family feud. Not worth it.
I do think a thoughtful, personal gift from an aunt would be very welcome |
taam
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Username: Taam
Post Number: 134
Registered: 1-2006
| | Posted on Saturday, April 15, 2006 - 7:42 pm: |
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unfortunately, i think mayflower's right on the $$ w/ the $$....$35 - $50. it's overwhelming, isn't it???!! |
cats
Citizen
Username: Cats
Post Number: 52
Registered: 5-2003
| | Posted on Saturday, April 15, 2006 - 11:41 pm: |
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I was able to find a great wooden cutting board in Maplewood at Kokoro. Spent $50, but it's something very useful (and tasteful, in my opinion) - not your typically boring towels, sheets, place settings, etc. Thanks for the suggestions! Las - I totally agree with you, but we all must do our duty...like it or not. |
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