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las
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Posted on Sunday, April 23, 2006 - 2:46 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Does anybody else have cats who do this? What's it all about? I've got a third who is never included.

1 2

4 3

Meow.
Lynn
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letters
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Posted on Sunday, April 23, 2006 - 3:29 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Maybe the third one is bi-polar.
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las
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Posted on Sunday, April 23, 2006 - 3:32 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Nice to read you being funny, letters. Guess that scream into the storm window helped.
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letters
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Posted on Sunday, April 23, 2006 - 3:45 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

I'm doing better, thanks.

Besides, we all knew somebody had to say it....
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Just The Aunt
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Posted on Sunday, April 23, 2006 - 4:20 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Sounds like another poster's cats! Two of his get along great. The other hides in the closet most of the time.
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greenetree
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Posted on Sunday, April 23, 2006 - 4:32 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

What's really weird is that #1 & #2 used to do that. The, after #1 was gone, #2 & #3 did it. Now, #4 & #5 do it. They even turn over in their sleep together.
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las
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Posted on Sunday, April 23, 2006 - 5:12 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

So it's transferrable...

Any idea what it's about? So much of what they do is related to the big cats, but I just don't know about this. It always facsinates me, and I always wonder if #3 feels left out, or if he even cares.
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doulamomma
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Posted on Sunday, April 23, 2006 - 5:32 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

they are like a giant kitty yin yang
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las
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Posted on Sunday, April 23, 2006 - 5:39 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Did yours do that Doula?
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doulamomma
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Posted on Sunday, April 23, 2006 - 6:10 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Sometimes, but they were like Abbott & Costello - one big, one little, one more the alpha cat (although he was younger/smaller)...yours seem more like two peas in a pod - mine stayed in differnt pods most of the time!
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Calliope
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Posted on Sunday, April 23, 2006 - 6:32 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Great pictures, las!
What you have here (ahem---adjusting glasses, and assuming a professorial tone)is a case of "mirroring behavior".
These two are pair bonded.
Any two cats, any combination of sexes can become pairbonded (mostly it is male/female) and not all of them bond ---sometimes in multi-cat households, they all just bond with their person, or sometimes they don't bond at all.
Most mammal pairs do this to some extent---including humans. Usually you can spot it in newly dating couples,(one crosses legs at the same time and direction as the other) and in those who have been together 20+years. Some kind of synchronicity.
I have no idea why this is.
There most be a budding anthropologist here somewhere.
Mine do it. The big one sleeps in a U-shape, and the little one sleeps in the u.
Anyway, it is sweet.
Calli
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las
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Posted on Sunday, April 23, 2006 - 6:39 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Calli, I saw your name and knew you'd have an answer!

It always makes me melt.

Any one else have synchronious bonding photos?
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Calliope
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Posted on Sunday, April 23, 2006 - 6:50 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Is your creamsicle cat Ernie?
If so, hmmmm, has he accepted your proposal?
His heart may belong to another.
Very Cute---sadly I have no pictures---by the time I get the camera, my big guy has dematerialized---he fears the little silver box will steal his soul.
Calli
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las
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Posted on Sunday, April 23, 2006 - 6:55 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Actually, what you said makes sense, Calli. These two bond with each other, but Ernie (my fiancé) bonds with me (found him at three weeks of age).

I always find them so facsinating!
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Calliope
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Posted on Sunday, April 23, 2006 - 7:24 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

EeeeK! You are Ernie's MOM! Better rethink this marriage!
I love cats (I love dogs too, and most other living creatures----can't warm up to bugs, though)
They are so interesting, and constantly surprising. I spent most of my life brainwashed that cats were "sneaky" or "aloof",and while I always liked them individually I never wanted one. Then one found her way into my heart 25 years ago. (just lost her 3 years ago)and I haven't been without a cat since. Mine are truly, deeply sensitive and affectionate---there is nothing aloof about them. There is something so satisfying about listening to beautiful music,and being accompanied by a warm, purring cat on your lap.
I may always yearn for a dog, but I'll never be without a cat.
Yours are very beautiful, and very special.
They cherish you.
Calli
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CLK
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Posted on Sunday, April 23, 2006 - 7:36 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

My former cats Moon Pie and Boo-boo used to do that - so incredibly cute. I have a picture of hte two of them on a sofa like your upper right photo - but at either corner of the photo, with a third cat (my then-roommate's) perched on top of the couch in between in a perfectly symmetrical traingle.


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Michael K. Mc Kell
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Posted on Sunday, April 23, 2006 - 9:49 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

I have nine cats. I lost count of the amount of stupid things they do.
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tabby
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Posted on Sunday, April 23, 2006 - 10:22 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

We have always had 4 felines, 2 boys and 2 girls....quite interesting to see if/how they paired off. Of our current 4, we have a menage a trois...the young Siamese girl cuddles up separately to both of the boys. (Siamese can be such sluts, I guess because they are exotic and know they are hotties) We have great pictures of her with each boyfriend. Our other girl is a bit more solitary and prefers human company more than feline.

I don't have any pictures on my laptop at home, so will upload some tomorrow.

Purrrrrrrrr
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Soda
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Posted on Sunday, April 23, 2006 - 10:33 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Tsunami-like Thread Drift:
My Favorite Cat Names:
Aloysius
Gizmo
Madame
Puddy
Soren
Spalding

-s.
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tjohn
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Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 8:45 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Do they make cat exercise wheels along the lines of those used by hamsters? And, if they do, how to you provide a incentive for cats to use these wheels. My concern is the tendency of cats to devolve into large amoebae when living the life of suburban luxury.
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greenetree
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Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 9:20 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

I have fishing poles with furry mice or long pieces of flannel attached. Mine go nuts with them, bouncing around like kittens. I gave one to my friend's 14 y/o cat & he does the same thing. Cats need to be actively played with.

Or, let a mouse loose in the house. That usually gives them a good workout.
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Shanabana
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Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 10:55 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Or let 'em out and they'll bring in their own mice to torture (yuck!).

My three sibling cats still occasionally bond. None of the cats will bond with the evil growling anorexic (and sooo cute!) Abysinian, however.
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breal
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Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 2:28 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Do cats dream? Jr. b is doing a science project in which he hypothesizes that they do. However, he has observed REM sleep on the part of our two kitties exactly this many times so far: zero times. It doesn't help that he tends to join them in snoozes instead of observing their snoozes.

We are scrambling to figure out what to put on the project display board besides cute cat pictures. Yes, we will graph that zero. We will write up a list of things observed: "cat wakes up a little, licks bottom, goes back to sleep." He needs to science this thing up. If some good suggestions follow, he could print out this post and the good suggestion post and glue them to the board. Desperate times chez b.
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las
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Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 3:17 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Whenever my non-polarity cat escapes to outside he chases butterflies and whatnots and leaps about in graceful slow-motion as if it were his dream come true. Does that count?
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tjohn
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Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 3:18 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

"licks bottom" sounds so pedestrian. I would write, "grooms posterior" followed by, "apparently lost train of thought and returned to sleep."
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breal
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Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 4:12 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Las--It might help, if you had a cute picture of this activity, which we could glue onto the science project board. We could caption it: "Possible dream of a cat."

TJohn--This is science! The observation has to be in the exact words of jr. b.
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Posted on Monday, April 24, 2006 - 9:19 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Well, cats definitely do dream. You have to catch them during their serious sleeping time of day, which is usually the middle of the day (as opposed to at night).

Our cats will twitch their paws, and make other movements when they are in a deep sleep - dreaming of chasing those birds that they watch during the day, I suppose.

I like the term used for this thread title, "cat polarity". We have the same phenomenon, but we call it "synchronized sleeping". Or sometimes, "cat shui".
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breal
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Posted on Tuesday, April 25, 2006 - 10:51 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Jr. b and I think they dream, too. Why wouldn't they? But the hypothesis has not been proven at our house, which lacks a sleep lab. Memo to self: next time grow rye grass in sun v. dark, compare detergent brands, or blow something up. Anything besides a project requiring patient observation over a period of hours!
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las
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Posted on Tuesday, April 25, 2006 - 11:03 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Last night my cat dreamed I left a plate of grilled chicken breasts on the kitchen counter and he got to lick them unattended for hours.

oh, wait, that actually happened.
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catmanjac
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Posted on Tuesday, April 25, 2006 - 2:24 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Cats do dream, and go into REM sleep. Besides this and body movements, sometimes they moan or make other noises. And I will assume that one of mine, although he can't experience REM, also dreams (he was born without eyes).
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tjohn
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Posted on Tuesday, April 25, 2006 - 3:02 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

Given the feline attention span, they must be short dreams. Dream-lick bottom-dream-lick bottom-dream-eat-lick bottom-dream-shed-lick bottom-dream.
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breal
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Posted on Tuesday, April 25, 2006 - 4:16 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post    Move Post (Moderator/Admin Only)

In the interest of science, I should point out that our poor beasties have been neutered & spayed.

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