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laugh
Citizen Username: Laugh
Post Number: 19 Registered: 1-2005
| Posted on Thursday, March 10, 2005 - 8:31 pm: |    |
Do you ever look for information, only to find out you should have looked in the first place? My ex husband and his present co-dependent are expecting. My stomach hurts! I should have found out before eating the baked ziti! I hate me for caring - and I hate him for having a life after me... Either way, I had to put it out there - so I could stop thinking about it. |
   
Meandtheboys
Citizen Username: Meandtheboys
Post Number: 326 Registered: 12-2004

| Posted on Friday, March 11, 2005 - 7:32 am: |    |
Sorry you're feeling so bad. Work on having a life after him, and some day you'll come to not care anymore. Focus on true friends and family. This too shall pass. Hang in there.  |
   
mjc
Citizen Username: Mjc
Post Number: 349 Registered: 10-2004
| Posted on Friday, March 11, 2005 - 10:55 am: |    |
Stomach pain, one of the most vivid memories of divorce. It WILL pass, though!! In the meantime, find something really sturdy to kick. (not the panels of the garage door) Give yourself a treat this weekend, and consider what a catastrophe a kid with the wrong guy could be.
MC |
   
Meandtheboys
Citizen Username: Meandtheboys
Post Number: 340 Registered: 12-2004

| Posted on Friday, March 11, 2005 - 10:57 am: |    |
Really letting loose and punching some pillows while screaming at the top of your lungs is also very theraputic! |
   
Tom Reingold
Supporter Username: Noglider
Post Number: 5824 Registered: 1-2003

| Posted on Friday, March 11, 2005 - 5:49 pm: |    |
Living well is the best revenge. Aren't you better off without your ex? |
   
laugh
Citizen Username: Laugh
Post Number: 20 Registered: 1-2005
| Posted on Friday, March 11, 2005 - 8:14 pm: |    |
thanks for all the nice words... yes- living well is the best revenge... and as i got into bed and my husband (current and last) snored while i watched the apprentice - i was able to let go...
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laugh
Citizen Username: Laugh
Post Number: 22 Registered: 1-2005
| Posted on Tuesday, March 15, 2005 - 8:33 pm: |    |
today i received a call that a friend from college that i do not keep in touch with passed away recently leaving a wife and 3 young kids.. so very sad. and if that wasn't enough there was dead rat in my driveway. |